Coming In From The Cold

26 New Zealand male survivors share their personal stories of sexual abuse

In a new publication that records the last 10 years in the development of Tautoko Tāne Aotearoa, you will read the stories of 26 Tautoko Tāne staff and clients who have generously shared their survivor experiences to raise awareness of the impacts of sexual violence and to support the important work of the only national network in New Zealand that is dedicated to enabling the wellbeing of male survivors.

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"The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in service to others"


Mahatma Ghandi



Ko te huarahi pai ki te kimi i a koe anō ko te ngaro o tō mahi ki ētahi atu

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Tony Chamberlain

Secretary-Treasurer | Trustee

I work with not-for-profit and social enterprise communities to develop on-purpose strategic agendas and effective governance frameworks. I am proud to be working with my colleagues in MSSAT Aotearoa to build a capable national organisation, enabling its member organisations to provide an appropriate nationwide support service for the male survivors of sexual abuse.

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Philip Chapman

Trustee (National)

I am the founder of Male Room and have more than 30 years’ experience working with families and males in the Nelson Region. As the chair of Tautoko Tane Aotearoa, I am committed to working with our member organisations to establish a sustainable national network of support services for male survivors of sexual abuse.

In addition to my role with the Male Room, I am also a Justice of the Peace, a trustee for the local Primary Health Organisation and a member of the steering committee for Te Rito anti-violence network in the Nelson Tasman region.

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Kerry Forse

Trustee

I have worked in education for 25 years and am currently a primary school tumuaki. Trauma informed practice, wellbeing and relationships are key aspects of my work and have led me to connect with people with similar professional values. Working on school boards has given me the experience and desire to work in this capacity to help others

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Michael Chamberlain

Manager | Trustee

Born and bred in Dunedin my background is in sales/marketing and mechanical engineering. I’ve headed a number of national companies as well as operating my own businesses. I’m passionate about growing awareness and support for survivors of sexual abuse in New Zealand.

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Gail Jones

Peer Support – Office Liaison

I am committed to supporting men on their healing journeys by using a calm, compassionate, and trauma-informed approach. I strive to create a safe, welcoming, and grounded environment where individuals can be themselves, be heard without judgment, and feel valued and supported.

I am here to facilitate honest conversations, foster meaningful connections, and help you take practical steps forward. You don’t have to navigate this journey alone.

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Reece Clarke

Peer Support

I’m deeply committed to helping men navigate the challenges of trauma and addiction. Drawing from my own journey of recovery, I bring a unique blend of lived experience and professional insight to my work in peer support.

Passionate about creating safe, non-judgmental spaces, I empower men to confront past trauma, break cycles of addiction, and rebuild meaningful lives. My approach is grounded in empathy, understanding, and the belief that everyone has the capacity for growth and transformation. Through groups, one-on-one mentoring, and community initiatives, I continue to make a real difference, showing men that recovery isn’t just possible, it’s a journey worth taking.

Supporting Men Through Recovery and Healing

The Inland Revenue Department has confirmed that Male Survivors Otago has Donation Organisation Status and we welcome Donations to our Charitable Trust. Individuals making donations can claim Tax Credits for income tax purposes for cash donations of $5 or more, see Section LD 1 of the Income Tax Act 2007.

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